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This recording contains references to family violence and sexual abuse. It may bring back traumatic memories for some listeners. Please seek help if you need it at any point.

Chapter 1

Growing up

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I didn’t think I was having a problem. I honestly didn’t believe I had a problem.
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Chapter 2

Kowhai

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I can’t take back what I’ve done, but I can change is what I say to them. I’ve got to try not to let the guilt affect me in the every day living...
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Chapter 3

The tree

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The pinnacle [of change for me is to have] a different korowai […] surrounding me and protecting me with love. Totally different.
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Chapter 4

Healing

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Denial is a very strange thing; it’s a very powerful thing […] and sometimes it takes a tragedy for someone to realise […] we have choices, and for me, it’s like power up. Grab it, you own it, you’ve got the power to change.
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